Get Back to Full Authentic Living
Feeling hopeless, anxious, and overwhelmed can take a toll, especially when life doesn’t feel like your own anymore. Maybe on the surface, things look fine, but inside there's a lingering emptiness, a sense that something is missing.
Perhaps that "one drink to take the edge off" turns into finishing the whole bottle. You might set limits—buying smaller bottles, hiding drinks, or committing to dry months—only to fall back into old patterns, wondering why others can stop after one or two, but you can't.
Your career, family, and other areas of life might seem intact, but this struggle stays hidden. Maybe you've noticed feeling sluggish, looking puffy, gaining weight, or losing interest in what once brought joy. Shame lingers, and it feels isolating, like no one understands.
Therapy offers a space to break free from this cycle and rediscover your sense of purpose. Together, we can explore what's driving these patterns, build healthier ways to cope, and help you reconnect with your life in a way that feels authentic and whole. You don’t have to carry this alone—I’m here to help.

The 3 phase process to Change your life - for life
My Recover With Tamara Therapeutic Process is for you who are ready to sustainably change the course of your life for the better. You'll get past the self-sabotaging behaviors and destructive relationships, stop the overspending, overworking, and heal the guilt and shame.
Calming the storm
Focusing on safe embodiment and reconnecting to ourselves.
Why we do the destructive behavior
Understanding what narratives and beliefs we are telling ourselves and how to shift them.
Making it all worth it and creating a purposeful life
Designing an empowered future with healthy habits and loving relationships.
Are you ready to thrive?
If you are ready to take a look at your thought and behavior patterns and put a stop to their destructiveness, let’s work together.


Hi, I'm Tamara.
As a counselor, my mission is to empower women—successful, driven, and often juggling multiple roles—to reclaim their lives from the grip of alcohol. My own path to recovery has equipped me with unique insights and tools that I now share with my clients. I believe that every woman has the strength within her to overcome trauma and addiction. My approach is compassionate, tailored, and grounded in proven strategies that work.
Together, we will explore the underlying causes of your drinking, address the trauma that may have contributed to it, and develop practical strategies for building a healthier lifestyle. My goal is to provide you with the support, tools, and a safe space to begin your healing journey.Are you ready to take that first step toward reclaiming your life? Let’s embark on this journey together—because you are worthy of a life free from the burdens of addiction. I look forward to connecting with you and supporting you on this path to empowerment!
- Tamara Kirby, LAC, CRADC
Reach out for a Free 15-min. Consultation.
